Guest Book

Thanks for visiting our website dedicated to the memory of and pursuit of justice for our mother and "Nana", Donna Barnhardt.

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I meet a man on a airplane, he was going to Iraq , He told me this story about his lovely mother in law who was murdered . My heart went out to him an his family. I am sorry for your loss . I know God she is with god . This man was a truly great person and i know in 4 monthes he will be home safe.
With all my heart,
sincerly
Ginnie

Seth, Rebecca, & Family

I just wanted to let you know, that you are never far from my thoughts and prayers. I visit your site often for updates. I was so glad to see AMW involved.

Love coming from Texas

Leslie

I have all of you in my heart and in my thoughts. My son and I always stopped in to see Donna while visiting my mom at sun-drop. She was a very sweet and caring woman. She really loved her children and her grandbabies. And Rebecca, if you ever need a friend to talk to I am here. God Bless! ~Wendy Roop

I am pleased to see that AMERICA's MOST WANTED is getting involved. I am also pleased to learn that the reward has been raised to $85,000 - Justice may yet be served.

donna was a good person, very funny, never knew what she was going to come up with, i wished i would have gotten to know her a little more. my thoughts and prayers are with you all, with GOD and AMW on our side, it's only a matter of time till he is caught. keep the faith, no matter what, i am a believer in, GOD has a reason for everything, just look at how many people your mother has touched in her lifetime, and helped, people believed in your mother, she will defenately be remembered by all who knew her.

My sincere condolences to everyone that has felt this loss.

Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

I am very sorry for your loss and this communities loss, I never knew your mother or Grandmother, but from what I have read, She was a fun-loving woman who adored her family. Sound to me like she is a Proverbs 31 woman. As I am out and about in the community, my eyes are always opened, looking for this killer. On two occasions, once at the corner of 73 and 3 I seen a person in a mini van who resembled the description of the killer, on the other occasion I seen a person fitting this description while waitiing at a red light at Cabarrus Ave and 601, driving an older model car. I will stay vigilent, looking for this monster. Lets hope he is caught before he strikes again. May the LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE.

IM AM VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOST. YOU ALL ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I PRAY TO GOT EVERYNIGHT TO HELP BOTH FAMILIES REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES AND THAT ONE DAY SOON THEY WILL CATCH WHO DID THIS HORRIBLE THING! MY GOD BLESS U ALL!

Seth -- How shocked and saddened we are to have heard the news. Though we are only connected to you through our work, we have come to think of you as a friend, and we feel that we know your family with all the photos that you've shown us over the years. We will hold you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry for what happened to both of them. I keep you in my prayers, and hope that they catch that jerk! Hopefully, the memories of the good times will help to ease your sorrow a bit.

Rebecca ,Shawn,Seth I am truely sorry for your lost.I know you have probably heard that a million times.I just wanted to let you know I really miss Donna a lot there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of her,She probably didn't know it but she was one of my best friends.I really miss her E mails.I hate to call in my orders now at Sun Drop knowing she won't answer the phone,at least I got to work with her for 14 years and we had alot of talks during that time.I'm going to always miss her smiling face. Bless all of you!! and Donna we will see each other again. love YA!! Benita McDonald

I think of Donna every single day. I am blessed to have known her and callled her my friend.

You all remain in my thoughs and prayers. Take care of each other.

Living in Concord my whole life, drinking Sundrop and driving by the plant everyday, you just don't think something like this would happen here. I didn't know either of the victims, but reading about their lives...it just makes me cry. I hope that justice with reign and soon, so that your suffering can be lessened, if only a little. My prayers are with you.

My thoughts and prayers are with both families. May you all have peace and happiness throughout the rest of your lives.

Dearest Tressy,
My heart is filled with sorrow for you and for the entire family. Justice will prevail, stay strong!!
I love you,
Sherry

After finding out I feel way to late, Let me say, how loving Donna is, I have seen post where she has helped with CVAN she did more then that. She opened her home to save lives. My daugter and my life were forever changed just by knowing her.She took us in and protected and made us apart of her family every way possible. Her love and compassion has changed our life for the better. I have no words to say to express how angry you all must be feeling right now. But know you are in our thoughts and prayers, I truly will miss her smile and her sense of humor. We all have been blessed just to know her...

Both our families has suffered a horrific loss. The Barnhardt family is our hearts and prayers.

Shawn, Seth & Marcie, Rebecca & Rick, & families

If in need of anything all you have to do is give the phone a ring.
You're are in all our thoughts & prayers!!!

Shawn, Seth and Rebecca

It was a shock to learn of this tragedy from Frank Dalton. I read up on the details and wondered how or why this could have happened. I last saw Donna with Rebecca a few years ago at the HI Express. It had been a long time since I had seen Donna and it was a delight to talk with her and be brought up to date. I would like to express my sincerest sympathy to you at this time with the loss of your mother. I know she is in Heavenly Father's loving arms and will be missed by all who knew her. I could tell that Rebecca was her best friend by the way she bragged about her. She also bragged about her grandchildren. I have not seen Seth or Shawn in many years and now you are all grown up with families. Remember your mother for all the good times and happiness she brought to you. She will be missed but not forgotten. My the comfort of the Lord be with you at this time of sadness. May your tears turn to rays of sunshine knowing that she is okay and is a better place. This probation is over and a new life begins. I know she loved you all very much.

Thank you for this web-site. This is a wonderful tribute to your Mother and to Darrell. It is also a great way for us to keep updated on everything. We consider Darrell and Tressy our best friends. We have been at the birth of both grand-children, spent holidays together, graduations together, have great memories of gatherings at each others house, hunting trips, and many more memories. Darrell was a precious man and a wonderful person and friend. He truely loved his wife, his family, and his church. We miss him greatly. My three teenage daughters adored Darrell. They always called him their 2nd daddy. He knew them as well as we do. He knew their likes and dislikes. Our last holiday with Darrell was on New Year's this year. Holly, my youngest daughter, loves Pop Tarts. When everyone arrived at the party bringing snacks and food, Darrell walked in with a box of Pop Tarts. He and Holly had their own little party together sharing their Pop Tarts. The Wednesday before Darrell's death, Amber, my middle daughter, was at church during a storm. She called me to see when we were coming because she does not like storms. She wanted her Dad, but looked around and saw Darrell there, and said, "I'll be fine, my 2nd Dad is here. My oldest daughter Kristi, loved the big hugs Darrell would always give. My husband lost a grand hunting, fishing, and pool shooting buddy. We truely feel the pain you are suffering through. We lost a great person and friend. We will remember your family in our prayers.We know you understand exactly what Darrell's friends and family are feeling, because you are feeling the same hurt. May God bless you and your family and the precious grandchildren in both families.
Thank you and God Bless.
Richie, Gina, Kristi, Amber, and Holly

I am so sorry for your loss,I never got to meet Donna, but I know she was a wonderful lady and was loving to her family. Darrel Noles worked with my husband for 15 years at CTC he was a man after God on heart and I sure pray that God will found the person who done this because we want you all to have a peace of mine and only God him his self can give you that..but please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, may God wrap his loving arms around you all now and months ahead..God Bless you

Love in Christ

Shawn, Seth and Donna's Family,

I am sorry for your loss.
Build strength by remembering and her memories will last forever.

I am truly sorry for your loss.
Your family will be in my prayers.
God Bless.

Scott was fortunate to get to work with Donna at Sun Drop for a year and a half and I met her several times going to the plant. You are all in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to be in the days to come.

I am sorry for your loss. I hppened to be one of the people who works at Young Cleaners. I knew Donna not only as a customer, but as a person to talk to. Donna would give me advice on things to exspect with my five year old daughter. We would satand around and talk about our families. Most often Donna would have atleast one of the grandchildren with her. I will miss very much.

Shawn, Seth, & Rebecca:

I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful Mom. My prayers are with you that ""the God of all comfort" will help you get through this sad time.

Donna was my very first "true love" and I think I can say that I was hers also. I have so many fond memories of being together in school, going to dances and football games, sneaking over to the pine trees for some "other" activities! She made me happy and taught me many things, some I could tell you, some I would be too embarassed to share! (our hormones were in overdrive then!) I remember helping her cook her special fried chicken dinner (yummie!) and then we would wash the dishes and argue over what was proper to wash first, the utensils or the other stuff! We would go swimming down behind my house in the Feather River and have so much fun all summer long. Needless to say, she was the joy of my life. I got a chance to see her in the early 90's when she came out to California for a visit. She was still the same sweet Donna that I remembered from high school and we had a really nice time during her stay. We kept in touch through emails off and on and she was always sending me funny or uplifting things to read. I am going to miss her so much.

Keep your hearts on the memories that you have with your Mom and remember that she is singing with the angels in heaven.

Mike

Rebecca, Rick, Avery, Abigail, Seth, Shawn and the rest of the loved ones in Donna's life...there are no words to express my sympathy and saddness for this senseless loss. You were truly the lights of Donna's life and EVERONE knew that if they knew Donna. She took lots of joy in seeing your happiness and smiles and I'm so sorry that she will not see those smiles in the future... I know she'll be watching from above. She was definitely a "one of a kind" woman with an abundance of love in her heart for her family. She'll never really know how much she meant to me but I'll always have the memories of the good times and I'll hold on to those until we see her again. She will truly be missed but never forgotten..how could I ever forget my daughters "fairy" godmother. That was the funniest thing I'd ever heard the day she chose to name herself the "fairy" godmother instead of godmother because she wanted to use her magic card. She really had a great sense of humor. I'm so glad that God blessed us to have her as a part of Madison's life and mine for the time we did...what fond memories I will always have!!!
Please know that you guys are always in my prayers but much more so now with such a devastating loss..
I love you guys! Keep praying and know that God will bring justice!

Justice for Donna!!!

Always love,
Robin Reed

I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family daily.

It's hard to find the right words at a time like this. In the small town of Concord friday morning, we were all shocked due to this tragic and senseless act of one who has shaken this community.Although, I did not know Donna well, she was always pleasant to me when I went to the plant to purchase Sun Drop. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Donna was a wonderful, dedicated and hard working employee. She was much more than that to Connie and me. She was a friend - she was a part of our family. She was a delight to be around and we miss her so much. We are in shock, hurt, angry and sad. Our life will never be the same - but her impact on us has made our life better. We will carry that foward. Our fond memories of her will keep her spirit in our life forever.

Shawn, Seth, Marcie, Rebecca, Rick and all your children - Donna was part of our family and you will always be a part of our family.

Rebecca, Seth and Shawn and families,
You are in my prayers as you continue to grieve and long to understand all that has happened. I want to tell you that seeing your family stand together has been a witness to so many. This is what it means to be a family.
Your mom was a precious lady, full of laughter and love for her family. Rebecca please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Be encouraged and know that your are loved
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10
Love,
Rebecca

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family.

Our prayers and thoughts go out to your family. I pray that God would heal the wounds in your heart as you handle this terrible loss. God is faithfull to comfort and mighty to save!

God Bless

Seth and Family-

You are in my thoughts and I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.

Sandy

Our deepest sympathy & condolences to both families. Both has a heart of gold and huge smile to share with everyone. Our son Brandon had the privelage to work with Donna for 2 1/2 years and she was a wonderful caring person. May God continue to Bless each of you in the difficult time.

I am so sorry about your Family's loss. It was a terrible and senseless act. I sure hope that
the Police catch this person. I will be praying for your Family. With Deepest Sympathy.

I'm sorry about your loss you are in my prayers and always remember that God is going to take care of it all she was a nice and caring person she is really going to be missed

We are very sorry for your loss. We pray every night for justice!

Now that I'm physically back in Kansas City, I just want you guys (Rebecca, Seth, Shawn and families) to know that my thoughts and prayers are still with you in N.C. Thank you so much for giving me the privilege to help with Donna's final arrangements. I feel so honored.

Here's PART of the letter I left in her casket ... I'm sharing this so everyone will know what a truly great friend she was to me.

"How do I say goodbye to the other "pea in the pod" (like Craig & Preston called us)??? I'm still reeling in shock and can't believe I won't ever hear your voice again and never get another email from sunshinegal28025 again.

How can I ever thank you for being you? If everyone in the world would put others first like you do... wow, what a wonderful world this would really be!! When Craig died, I know you didn't hesitate one second about packing up 8-month old Rebecca and flying to Louisiana to be with me. And not only come when he died ... but came back with the girls and me for a few weeks after his funeral. I honestly do not even remember much of what we did or said during that time -- I just remember you being there and that's all I needed.

Thank you for the being the kind of friend that even though we didn't see each other often, or even speak too often, that there was never a lapse in time when we were together. We picked right back up where we left off.

I don't think I ever heard you cry although I know in your life you had MANY reasons to cry -- but you always seemed to carry your challenges with such grace. You were such an example to me on how to be a better person and especially to be a better grandma. My grandchildren have their own silver engraved cake knives with 'for today and all of your tomorrows' because of your idea. I'm just sorry that none of those important in your life will have you there for their tomorrows.

Do you know that every time I sent you an email I never put the name Donna in the TO: line? I alwayed typed "sunshinegal" --- because that is what you are to me, the sunshinegal. And your ending never changed: Don't cry because it's over; SMILE because it happened". I will ALWAYS SMILE because YOU happened in my life .. and that will never end.

Here's to you my friend -- I know your mom, Craig and Perk are there for you. And save my spot right beside you (if by the grace of God I make it up as high as you). Goodbye, the one and only Sunshine Gal."

The world is a better place because she lived and touches all of our lives.

Love always ... Aunt Susan

To All of You,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sad with you. I can tell Donna was a wonderful lady. I live in Salisbury and don't know her but my heart bleeds for all of you. We just don't know how precious our time with our loved ones is. God be with you all.

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. I do hope that they find the person who did this terrible thing.

Thought and Prayers,
Robin

I am so shocked, saddened and outraged by this senseless act of malice. Donna and I were best friends through high school. Even though we did not see each other often, we did make a point of staying in contact over the last 40 plus years and sharing all the events of our lives. My friend is gone....my heart aches for her family. Seth, Shawn and Rebecca...I met you all in Paradise, Ca. but you were so small you probably don't remember but I do and always will. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. She is with the angels now and will always be watching over you and your children and the children to come. My sincere condolences to all.

Seth and Family
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry that your family has been robbed of such a wonderful mother, grandmother, and friend. I have never forgotten (even after 16 years) how sweet Donna was to me and Kasey, and she will always hold a special place in my heart.

Hayley and Kasey Franklin

I had been able to control my emotions fairly well after hearing the news of Donna's death shortly after 10:00 am on Friday, June 13th, until I was driving home from work at 5:00 pm by the Sun-drop Company. I lost it! After crying most of the way home, I remembered Donna's favorite quotation: "Don't cry because its over; smile because it happened." (That was attached to all her emails.) Then I saw Donna's smiling face and knew Donna wouldn't want me to cry for her. I began remembering all the good times since I met her after she moved to the Concord/Kannapolis area. Our children grew up together in Church. I loved Donna! She was a very special and unique lady. She loved her children and most of all, her grandchildren. I'll miss this lady. Now, when I think of Donna, I can't help but smile. My prayers are with Rebecca, Shawn, Seth and grandchildren.

I am so sorry for your loss. Darrel Noles was a relative of mine and it's so hard to understand why these things happen. We are praying that justice is done for Donna and Darrel. God Bless you and your family.

Our prayers are with you and your family. I hope and pray that justice will prevail.

I want to take a moment to thank everyone in the community and across the country for your support and prayers. It means a great deal to our family. I know that my mom touched so many people not just in this community but all over. I would like to personally thank The UPS Store on Copperfield Blvd., Young Cleaners, Kluttz Frames and Art, Mr. C's, Wayside on Branchview, Giovannis Pizzaria in Kannapolis, CVS on Branchview, Papa Johns on 601, Wilkinson Funeral Home for the hours of help and understanding, Wilmar Park Baptist Church members for ALL that they have done, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints members for the items they have brought and ALL of the help they have given, the HUNDREDS of people who have sent flowers, called and stopped by. Please keep us in your prayers and NEVER forget Donna.....

JUSTICE FOR DONNA!!!!!! and the families.......

RIck,Rebecca,and girls,
We are so sorry for your great loss. We want you to know that your family has and will be in our prayers for many weeks to come to get you though this. We are here to help in anyway to help spend the word to help find the man how took this loving women away from so many people or just a ear to listen...
We love ya'll
Todd Natalie and Kodie

I loved my Nana with all my heart. She was my "fairy" godmother. She always said that she didn't have a magic wand but she had a magic charge card. She was the best fairy godmother anybody could ever want because she didn't give just material things...she gave me her love and that was really all I ever wanted from her. I will miss you Nana!!!

We are deeply saddened by your lose. Donna was a very kind and loving person .She touched the hearts of many people. Always willing to help others and a great Grandmother. I know the grandkids will always miss her. It is a pledge from our family to yours to help in whatever way we can .Any thing we can do please don’t hesitate to call. I would like to recommend a candle light vigil for her .We would love to help pass out flyers and get the word out that we will not tolerate monstrous acts like this in our community.

Justice for Donna.

Sincerely, The Odom Family

Shawn,Seth and the Rest of Donna's Family,
I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this tragic time.
I am sad for your whole family . I hope justice will be served..

Love
Brian and Sydnie Chance

Seth,
I am so very sorry about our mother. I want you to know I Love You,
and I am here for you always.
Love, Marcie

Aunt Donna was truly a light in our family. Her generosity and love was weaved into everything she did. We will miss her laughter and that wonderful smile. The last time she was out for a visit she gave me some advice, "slow down". When I get too caught up in life, her words pop into my brain and I am able to simply slow down and enjoy the wonderful people around me.
Shawn, Seth and Rebecca I am sorry for your loss, I hope you all find the comfort and peace you need to get through this. She was an amazing woman, thank you for sharing her with the rest of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Shawn and Seth, and the rest of Donna's beloved family,

Please know that I am thinking about you, and praying daily for justice and peace to surround you all, during what has to be a truely devistating time.

Love,
Brooke

Seth,
We are so sad and so shocked to hear this news. We can't imagine how these days are for you and your family, but please know that we care for you and that we are thinking of you.

Take care of yourself and your family as you go through this. We are here if you need.
Robin and Tom

Seth,

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Seth, Marcie, Rebecca, and Children,

My heart fell to hear about your Mom and Nana. Although I never had the opportunity to meet her, I have known Seth for about 15 years, and recently met Rebecca. Rebecca and Seth, I suspect you must both be strong reflections of your Mom. Through you, perhaps I met your Mom.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you today and until I see you again. May God bless you both and your families, and be with you in your hearts as you go through this difficult and tragic time.

My love to all

Leslie Pollard

Seth, Marcie & children: You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time of you life. She will be greatly missed by you and all the grandchildren. She was taken from this life far too early, but know that she is walking with the Lord and shining down on each of you every day. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. May God bless each of you and give you the same eternal grace life, joy and happiness that he has given to your mother.

We are so very sorry for losing such a terrific and wonderful person. I will always be thankful for her support and kindness (and wanting to plan a bake sale for me!) during my time of need. If there is anything that we can do, please don't hesitate to call. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love,
Sandy, Josh and Breanna

If you need anything just call.

Seth,

Sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your co-workers are here for any help you need.

The Perez Family

Seth:

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Todd, Tammy, Jenna, and William Alexander

I have been friends with Duke and his family for 26 years... My heartfelt condolences and prayers go out for each and every one of the family and this terrible time... Donna is in the arms of JESUS now and smiling... GOD Bless You and her beautiful Grandchildren

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your mother and grandmother was a great person and I know she will be watching over everyone from heaven. I will think of her everytime I put my newborn baby in his favorite swing that she got for him!

Rebecca,

I love you and hope I can be there for you like you have been for me so many times!

Seth,

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. We all all praying for her, you, and your family.

Thanks for keeping us posted with the website.

Seth,

Our condolences for your loss. Your mother and family will be in our prayers.

John

Seth: I hope that you are doing as well as possible in this difficult situation. I was so very saddened to hear of your loss. Take care and let me know if I can do anything to help.....

I've been a friend of Duke's since we first started working together in a lumbermiill in Klamath Falls and this is such horrible news to hear! I'm so sorry and our hearts and our prayers go out to Donna's whole family. We pray that justice will come soon to the animal that has done this. God Speed to ya'll!

Craig, Marcia, Craig Jr., and Eliea Dawn Allen
The Craig Allen Blues Band
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541-892-1399

I am so very sorry for your loss.

May the Lord give you strength and comfort through this difficult time.

I spoke with Donna many times on the phone when calling SunDrop. She was always so kind to me. I will never forget the time I called her and she said that I needed to go across the hall and welcome her daughter Rebecca to my building. It was a nice, motherly way of telling me what to do!! She made me laugh. I then asked about her daughter and the business across the hall and she spent half an hour telling me- bragging to me- about her children. I kept thinking to myself "I wish my mom was this proud of me". She surely was proud of her children AND her grandchildren. What a legacy of love she has left behind.
To her family- I am praying that God will give you peace that passes all understanding. You are in my thoughts and will continue to be in my prayers.

Seth, Marcie, Shawn, Rebecca & Rick -

We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Donna was a wonderful woman and the world is a much darker place without her in it. If there is anything that we can do, know that we are there for you. Our prayers are with you and the grandbabies and we love you!

I am sorry for you loss. If there is any way we can help please let us know. Donna looks like a wonderfully happy women. Your in our thoughts and prayers.

Seth, Marcie, Rebecca, Rick, Shawn, Preston and all the Grandchildren:

Sorrow, pain, anger, confusion, Love.

We are very sorry for your loss. My sister Donna was a caring and Loving woman.
All her life she was about giving, she enjoyed family and friends. We will miss her.
May God provide for her eternal happiness and joy. Her rewards will be many.

We Love you.

Seth: My sincere condolences to you and Marcia. As you said, the grandkids will miss the love and compassion that only a grandparent can provide.